Working things out ...

Being that I'm planning on becoming a single parent, I've been working hard on getting my finances in order. I 'm doing things to get bills paid off. I'm starting with a personal trainer in July - to become more healthy and athletic. I'd guess you can call it working on myself and searching my soul for what I think is best to feather my nest to be. My CHI representative - Ali has been so supportive when I email her with questions and concerns. I know others have asked me why I'm waiting or thinking so hard about applying. I guess it boils down to the fact that I always thought I'd be married. That I'd have that other person to lean on and support me when I took the plunge into parenthood. That being said now that I'm where I am in my life and would like to become a parent even if I don't marry. Adopting would be such a blessing for me. It's just daunting looking at how much it costs and then trying to figure that out on a single salary.

Adoption Quote

I found a new quote about adoption that I really love so I'm posting it on my blog so that others can enjoy it as well!

"We witness a miracle everytime a child enters into life. But those who make their journey home across time and miles, growing within the hearts of those who waited to love them, are carried on the wings of destiny and placed among us by God's very own hands." - Kristi Larson

Weighing in on Submitting My Application to CHI

Why Russia ....

I actually read these stats on Riley's Adoption Blog, but I'd heard about these issues before ... reading them again when I'm so close to submitting my paperwork to CHI just breaks my heart.


More than 700,000 orphans are living in 2,000 state-run orphanages. Of those, 95 percent have a living parent unable to or unwilling to care for them. That doesn't include the estimated 2 million to 4 million homeless orphans living on the streets and in railway stations.

Of those who are not adopted and leave the orphanage between the ages of 16 and 18

50 percent of the girls become prostitutes
40 percent of the children become addicted to drugs or alcohol
40 percent commit crimes
10 percent commit suicide
Also...

Just 1 in 10 former Russian orphans becomes a functional member of society.
132,500 children are abandoned to the state in Russia every year, up from roughly 67,000 in 1992.
Nearly 4,640 Russian orphans were adopted by Americans in 2005, down from a record 5,865 in 2004.
13 out of every 100 children adopted by Russians are eventually returned to the orphanage.
40 million children in the former Soviet Union are living in poverty.
Sources: Ministry of Education of the Russian Federation, the Commission for Children at Risk, Human Rights Watch, European Children's Trust, Rosstat Agency